Hey..my mother was terribly verbally difficult..my dad wasn't around to be abusive..im lucky. Sounds like you had some difficult times growing up. Our difference is is that you could maybe get your kit...should you want it. I'm going through the beginning stages of (possibly) locating mine via investigatory work. Funny how we share similar upbringings.I'm 14 years older than she. My dad was abusive and I bailed at 17. Never looked back. She has no idea who I am, nor does her younger sister.
If found would you consider using it on a gig for old times sake?....maybe you never gigged that kit?.
You heartless drummer! You. Your first child thrown to another owner as if it was an old shoe! to take to the goodwill..im thinking you've broken drummers law 101. I'll pass this on to the jury..its in they're hands now.My first kit was a MIJ stencil kit (Gracy). I gave it to a guy who wanted to start drumming. I have no desire to have it back.