I feel the people who ask stuff like this will benefit HUGE from a tunebot to get them in the range and learn. When someone asks tuning questions and people say "just do it by ear" it drives me nuts, because the OP clearly can't do it by ear yet. Chicken and egg situation.
The tunebot is a great tool and using 3rds and 4ths Really helps. They have a phone app and website to punch in the size of your drum, and your desired resonence, and if you want the batter higher, lower, or the same as the reso. bing bang boom.
Once you get all your drums tuned using that, (theres 100's of combinations) you can feel free to adjust it by ear as much as you want until you are confident doing it without.
I love my tunebot, it saves me a ton of time. I don't treat it as gospal, and will often adjust it after. but it gets me REALLY close REALLY fast. And people always complement how awesome my kit sounds.