ZootELoops
Senior Member
Does anyone have anxiety about playing with other people or a fear of embarrassment in social groups? Do you know someone that does?
I have a friend who I am trying to encourage to play some open mic nights with me or perhaps starting a band - but he is very hesitant because he has severe social phobia around people he doesnt know. He is a very good guitar player, but seems to lock up around people and doesnt play as well. If I can get a shot or two in him, he loosens up a bit in smaller circles of friends, but I think because he has only been playing a few years that he is still uncomfortable and unsure of himself and that may be compounding to the problem.
He is a good friend and a great person. I thought maybe he should consult a psychiatrist or get some anti-anxiety meds, but I dont want to make him feel uncomfortable either if he's not ready.
Any advice I could give him?
I have a friend who I am trying to encourage to play some open mic nights with me or perhaps starting a band - but he is very hesitant because he has severe social phobia around people he doesnt know. He is a very good guitar player, but seems to lock up around people and doesnt play as well. If I can get a shot or two in him, he loosens up a bit in smaller circles of friends, but I think because he has only been playing a few years that he is still uncomfortable and unsure of himself and that may be compounding to the problem.
He is a good friend and a great person. I thought maybe he should consult a psychiatrist or get some anti-anxiety meds, but I dont want to make him feel uncomfortable either if he's not ready.
Any advice I could give him?