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Local Boob
A competent sound engineer (Studio or live) will not say anything about it to you because they know that it is your gear and it is probably like that for a reason. They also know how to properly mic a bass drum in either fashion. A self conscious sound engineer will not let you hear the end of it because it is out of their comfort zone and they have yet to realize that they are not the one to make that decision. All they need to do is figure out how to reinforce the sound that the drummer wants.
this is all true. I learned that my job as a sound guy was to put a mic where it would recreate the best sound...and also to work with the musicians. It was NOT my job to tell them what I thought unless asked first. I knew the parameters of the venue I was in, and tried to fit the situation as best I can.
there are many times where I really, really want to do a simple tune on peoples stuff, or give them a better cabinet or head, but you cant' do that all the time.