mmulcahy1
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Hi everybody, I would like to seek advice and words of wisdom from those of you in the know. I will try my best not to ramble.
Over the course of last summer I spent a lot of time looking around for a band to join - lots of ups and downs - and late last September, I got together with a couple of guys who I really gelled with right away. Anyway, the band project started out with some pretty good classic rock songs and a little bit (2 or 3 songs) of newer alternative tunes. We were getting together about once a week and newer songs were always being added – we were up to 40 songs total and many have been deleted since we started in late September - we're currently focusing on 13 songs total. That constitutes pretty much only one set, which is designed to complement our guitar player’s (I’ll call him Joe) solo acoustic sets… You see, Joe wants to play his acoustic gig and finish up the whole thing as a band. – Hence the 13 songs.
Now I've tried very hard to be reliable and give feedback only when necessary. But, Since November, we lost our bass player (mostly due to time constraints), and since finding a new bassist after Christmas, we have only practiced one time.
We are pretty much at the mercy of Joe because of his work schedule, which takes him out of town a lot. At first, I was totally cool with that because it gave me time to learn and practice my drum parts and show up to rehearsal prepared, but now it's becoming annoying. As a matter of fact, we had a practice scheduled for this coming Thursday that was cancelled because Joe has to stay out of town to take care of some business.
Here’s an excerpt of an e-mail I got from Joe today:
I did play solo at the bar on Friday - The venue in the afternoon is probably more conducive to a 1 man gig...rather than the full blow concert...so I’m sort of rethinking how a 1 set gig might work...
I’m becoming frustrated. All the songs must meet Joe’s criteria. The songs can’t be too wordy. It can’t be a “busy” song. It has to have an edge to it. It has to be material that other bands don’t play…because God forbid someone suggests a song that’s been “played to death” and that the audience actually knows.
Writing this is adding to the frustration.
I guess that this has officially rambled. If you get the jist of what I’m trying to say or have any questions about what I’ve said, speak up!
Thanks.
Edit: this made sense as I was writing it. I hope it made sense while you were reading it. I'm fighting s cold and my dog unexpectedly died yesterday. It's been a rough weekend.
Over the course of last summer I spent a lot of time looking around for a band to join - lots of ups and downs - and late last September, I got together with a couple of guys who I really gelled with right away. Anyway, the band project started out with some pretty good classic rock songs and a little bit (2 or 3 songs) of newer alternative tunes. We were getting together about once a week and newer songs were always being added – we were up to 40 songs total and many have been deleted since we started in late September - we're currently focusing on 13 songs total. That constitutes pretty much only one set, which is designed to complement our guitar player’s (I’ll call him Joe) solo acoustic sets… You see, Joe wants to play his acoustic gig and finish up the whole thing as a band. – Hence the 13 songs.
Now I've tried very hard to be reliable and give feedback only when necessary. But, Since November, we lost our bass player (mostly due to time constraints), and since finding a new bassist after Christmas, we have only practiced one time.
We are pretty much at the mercy of Joe because of his work schedule, which takes him out of town a lot. At first, I was totally cool with that because it gave me time to learn and practice my drum parts and show up to rehearsal prepared, but now it's becoming annoying. As a matter of fact, we had a practice scheduled for this coming Thursday that was cancelled because Joe has to stay out of town to take care of some business.
Here’s an excerpt of an e-mail I got from Joe today:
I did play solo at the bar on Friday - The venue in the afternoon is probably more conducive to a 1 man gig...rather than the full blow concert...so I’m sort of rethinking how a 1 set gig might work...
I’m becoming frustrated. All the songs must meet Joe’s criteria. The songs can’t be too wordy. It can’t be a “busy” song. It has to have an edge to it. It has to be material that other bands don’t play…because God forbid someone suggests a song that’s been “played to death” and that the audience actually knows.
Writing this is adding to the frustration.
I guess that this has officially rambled. If you get the jist of what I’m trying to say or have any questions about what I’ve said, speak up!
Thanks.
Edit: this made sense as I was writing it. I hope it made sense while you were reading it. I'm fighting s cold and my dog unexpectedly died yesterday. It's been a rough weekend.
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