Dude, this is like asking what shoes are best for you. You have to go try them on yourself. I personally like Skechers but maybe your feet are shaped differently from mine and Skechers don't feel so good to you, plus you don't want the sporty look. Get the idea?
Start off with the cymbals you're going to play most - the hi-hats. Go find a set of hats that sounds good. If you can buy them used for cheaper, bonus. Same for the ride. Do you want dry and pingy or light, washy and crashable? Big bell, small bell, no bell?
Then find your crashes. Either buy them at the same time or each time you buy a crash, take your other crashes along so that you can be sure they blend well.
Chinas are the most subjective of all. Some want a brash, metallic gong, others want pure trash and white noise. Shop around.
Least of your concerns should be brands. The ink on the cymbals should mean a lot less to you than the sound coming off them. If you buy Sabian hats, Paiste crashes, and a Zildjian ride, the drum police are probably not coming to your house to arrest you....