If it doesn't feel right, get out before you're forced to.
I played with a singer songwriter back in '95. Her music had some potential,but not enough, like a lot of other stuff out there. She wanted to keep it as a 3 pc band - her playing guitar and singing, the bass player and me. It lacked a lot of fullness, and to me it was boring playing the same droning stuff over and over again.
I felt it it wasn't good enough to go anywhere. She finally got another guitar player, and he and I didn't get along from the get go. Perhaps he could sense I didn't like what I was doing. They were trying to do a showcase in New York City, and at that point from all the practice and playing out, my wrists were hurting and I needed to take a break and couldn't make it.
I received a phone call stating I was no longer needed, and though I was a little pissed off at the way it was handled in telling me, they did me a favor. I was starting to resent what I was doing, and the new guitar player told me I sucked. The funny thing was that I could play guitar as well as him, so it was a little ironic.
A few years later, I got into a band that I enjoyed with guys around the same age. We played covers and originals as well. It was a totally different feeling, enjoyable and fun. I stopped playing about 10 years ago, and have played the keyboards since then, but now I have the fire to drum again now that I have an E kit.
Probably didn't need to get long winded here - you probably already know you want to get out. Make a change before its forced on you - you'll feel better about it.
And as for the singer songwriter, we had recorded an album in the studio, again back in '95, and when I google her on the computer, I get songs from that album, so she hasn't done jacksh%$ in almost 15 years. Hey, what did I know - well I know what I was doing sucked, so probably got that comment as a result. If it's not enjoyable, it's not worth doing.
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