Good grief, all these posts! Thanks heaps Larry and co for saying such nice things. Didn't expect any of this but I do appreciate it.
This was actually the
third time I'd been given rubbish in 6 months - the last straw. I never started any of the nastiness. I could have handled things better but there are more enjoyable ways of spending your leisure time than feeling stressed because some people want to misrepresent and insult you. That's just logic, not a case of Polly going crackers
To revisit the forum rules:
The metaphor that we like to use is that of a dinner party. Bernhard Castiglioni, the founder of DrummerWorld, is throwing a party and you are welcome to join, as long as you are a polite guest...
There is no ... flaming, or insulting of others allowed. Do not make comments that are ... pejorative, inflammatory, spiteful ... or in any way insulting or disrespectful to any individual or group of people. Do not allow disagreements to become personal. Attacking or insulting another forum member rather than disagreeing with their point of view will not be tolerated. If you do disagree with someone else's opinion, show your intelligence by arguing your position calmly and respectfully. Please do not start a new thread to discuss how much you don't like someone or something. If you have ... an ax to grind, this is not the place for you.
It's not about what I want - them's the rules.
For the record, I never dissed skill or technique. I've been a fan of Bill Bruford's since 1975 and he has great chops and I also love all of Steely Dan's drummers (plus many other top players). Yet when I hear obvious drum acrobatics I go "wow" for a few minutes and then get bored. That's not disrespect, just my musical taste.
Mind you, the big gospel chops, jazzrock and metal monsters won't care what any of us think since they are enjoying their careers and they know they won't appeal to everyone.
And Meg White won't care what anyone here thinks either because she's a more solid, tasteful and better-sounding drummer than most of her detractors. Ditto Ringo and Charlie. They are gig-hardened pros who have played huge venues to thousands of fans, something that few of us here have experienced, certainly not me. Respect starts there.
I think we need to sort out this misunderstanding before we can progress without again being stuck in the same old pointless argument. Maybe then we can chat about drumming philosophies without things going pear-shaped? I like talking about the philosophies behind what people choose to play or listen to because, to me, a major part of drumming is mental and emotional, not just physical.
Some may feel that members who embrace the low-technique drummers with clever ideas are engaging in sour grapes and don't appreciate skill. Maybe that does happen at times but I can't think of a single example on this forum. What's wrong with enjoying both hot and understated drummers, but preferring the latter?
Whatever, I like the money beat. It rocks back and forth like a pendulum. That doesn't mean it's the be-all-and-end-all. The disagreements on the money beat thread were friendly in the first few pages and it was fun because differerent opinions are interesting. But later on the hostile comments, misrepresentations and dissing of others' playing were not only bad form in my books but a breach of forum etiquette.
If I see nasty posts again - to me or anyone else - I'm not engaging, I'll just report them. I don't want to be a squealer running to Daddy Dogbreath for help but that makes more sense than fighting.
Sorry,
another long post
PS. I too would like to see KIS here again.