regarding session drumming and that route, would i diploma help or again is it the 'luck' aspect of everything.
There's not a lot of work for session musicians, certainly nothing like the glory days of the '60s & '70s. You've heard the expression 'it's who you know'? In many situations it's more like who knows
you. Most session drummers get a foot in the door via someone they already know (who they've probably met at the
right place & right time) who may call if they need a sub. It's much more than just putting your name out and saying "if you ever need a sub, let me know." These are relationships often built over time, and obviously it's crucial for the established drummer to be familiar with the aspiring drummer's capabilities, because both reputations are on the line. For example, I would never, ever recommend a drummer for a gig unless I knew for sure how he/she played, or unless their reputation was stellar (in which case I doubt anyone would be asking me.)
So the same would go for you. If a working drummer knows you, and how you play, there's a chance you could get a call to step-in on a session or gig. Once you're doing a job, the other players around you can hear how you play, assess your personality, etc. It's just one of many 'right place, right time' scenarios that you hope you can land in. There's no way to engineer or create those occasions, they happen when they happen, IF they happen. But you can raise your chances by doing whatever gigs you can, meeting players at jams, etc. A famous famous FAMOUS studio guitar player said "never say no, until you can't say yes."
As for a degree, the piece of paper isn't really going to be helpful in terms of getting work. Go to school to improve yourself, but don't expect that a degree will get you gigs, or that producers will be impressed. Believe it or not, most musicians don't want to use other musicians who are, shall we say...
over-educated. That doesn't mean you shouldn't know all that you can, but it does mean you should be modest in terms of who you announce to that you have a degree. The problem is, many players who come out of the music schools have a tendency to overplay and demonstrate all of their tricks, and usually at the wrong times. So, a lot of players looking for a drummer (or guitar player or whatever) will skip over the ads that say MI graduate, etc.
Let's put it this way... Terry Bozzio didn't get the Zappa drum chair because he was a Berklee grad. He had to audition just like everyone else.
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